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Whiskey Tea Nightcap

10/29/2014

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I sit sipping my whiskey tea nightcap
In the early hours of dawn
Insomnia grips me a third night coming
With not but a wink to spare
Picking strings in the living room
Meditation in the gardens
Still no rest
Pacing about the house 
Then pacing about the yard
Surely the body knows best
What a feeling
So far as I can tell
To be the only man without slumber
Save for the call of a prowling night cat
The chirp of a bird unsure
The distant objection of a dog who knows
In a house all but vacant besides me
I am as good to be an animal myself
For who so better to take me into company
Than creatures of night both present and unseen
To form a union of greeters for daylight
For though sleep is what I most desire
But still what I most lack
My cup remains full 
With that of the Whiskey Tea Nightcap 

An unsuccessful attempt at rest
I resolve to seek the outdoors again
Only bread for breakfast and unadulterated tea
The world now alive to keep me company
And yet here I sit so unsocially
Insufficient to speak 
A performance at all too weak
My most accomplished device 
My right hand alone
Equipped with but a pen to pronounce 
What left the brain will spew 
Only an inkling of the present moment 
For not much else can it render further
To give pause for even a second
Is to lose it all in its entirety 
Yet this is exactly what becomes 
And I cease to write further
Lost in a sea of muddled thoughts
Until the dreaming world finds me 
And claims me out of pity 

And so I sit awaiting some form of restoration 
In hopes of a day anew 

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Mike Rowe's Response To Following Your Pasison

10/6/2014

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Mike Rowe is pretty much a certified bad ass. He does a lot of hard work, he has a seemingly endless desire to learn and understand blue collar culture, and has a narrative voice that stands among the ranks of Morgan Freeman and Anthony Hopkins. He's also made waves on the internet by posting responses to fan mail that he receives regularly. 
     
      In a recent response, he addresses a fan who asks him about his philosophy of NOT following your passion in life. I heard Rowe speak on this topic several years ago on a television interview and found his stance to be very interesting in a world where everyone is encouraged, from childhood on, to "follow your passion" and "never give up on your dream". Considering Rowe is such a seemingly hard working guy himself, you might find his argument bewildering, but read his response below and you may think differently. 

The writer sent this message to Rowe: 

“Hi, Mike. Let me begin by saying that I love what you and your foundation are attempting to do. However, I’m confused by your directive to NOT “follow your passion.” I think it can be safely argued that if no one followed their passion, companies like Apple, Microsoft, Dow, and many more wouldn’t exist. If no one follows their passion, who innovates? Who founds companies that provide jobs for the outstanding workers that your foundation aims to help?”

Rowe’s responded:

Hi Stephen

A few years ago, I did a special called “The Dirty Truth.” In it, I challenged the conventional wisdom of popular platitudes by offering “dirtier,” more individualistic alternatives. For my inspiration, I looked to those hackneyed bromides that hang on the walls of corporate America. The ones that extoll passersby to live up to their potential by “dreaming bigger,” “working smarter,” and being a better “team player.” In that context, I first saw “Follow Your Passion” displayed in the conference room of a telemarketing firm that employed me thirty years ago. The words appeared next to an image of a rainbow, arcing gently over a waterfall and disappearing into a field of butterflies. Thinking of it now still makes me throw up in my mouth.

Like all bad advice, “Follow Your Passion” is routinely dispensed as though it’s wisdom were both incontrovertible and equally applicable to all. It’s not. Just because you’re passionate about something doesn’t mean you won’t suck at it. And just because you’re determined to improve doesn’t mean that you will. Does that mean you shouldn’t pursue a thing you’re passionate about?” Of course not. The question is, for how long, and to what end?

When it comes to earning a living and being a productive member of society – I don’t think people should limit their options to those vocations they feel passionate towards. I met a lot of people on Dirty Jobs who really loved their work. But very few of them dreamed of having the career they ultimately chose. I remember a very successful septic tank cleaner who told me his secret of success. “I looked around to see where everyone else was headed, and then I went the opposite way,” he said. “Then I got good at my work. Then I found a way to love it. Then I got rich.”

Every time I watch The Oscars, I cringe when some famous movie star – trophy in hand – starts to deconstruct the secret to happiness. It’s always the same thing, and I can never hit “mute” fast enough to escape the inevitable cliches. “Don’t give up on your dreams kids, no matter what.” “Don’t let anyone tell you that you don’t have what it takes.” And of course, “Always follow your passion!”

Today, we have millions looking for work, and millions of good jobs unfilled because people are simply not passionate about pursuing those particular opportunities. Do we really need Lady GaGa telling our kids that happiness and success can be theirs if only they follow their passion?

There are many examples – including those you mention – of passionate people with big dreams who stayed the course, worked hard, overcame adversity, and changed the world though sheer pluck and determination. We love stories that begin with a dream, and culminate when that dream comes true. And to your question, we would surely be worse off without the likes of Bill Gates and Thomas Edison and all the other innovators and Captains of Industry. But from my perspective, I don’t see a shortage of people who are willing to dream big. I see people struggling because their reach has exceeded their grasp.

I’m fascinated by the beginning of American Idol. Every year, thousands of aspiring pop-stars show up with great expectations, only to learn that they don’t have anything close to the skills they thought they did. What’s amazing to me, isn’t their lack of talent – it’s their lack of awareness, and the resulting shock of being rejected. How is it that so many people are so blind to their own limitations? How did these peope get the impression they could sing in the first place? Then again, is their incredulity really so different than the surprise of a college graduate who learns on his first interview that his double major in Medieval Studies and French Literature doesn’t guarantee him the job he expected? In a world where everyone gets a trophy, encouragement trumps honesty, and realistic expectations go out the window.

When I was 16, I wanted to follow in my grandfathers footsteps. I wanted to be a tradesman. I wanted to build things, and fix things, and make things with my own two hands. This was my passion, and I followed it for years. I took all the shop classes at school, and did all I could to absorb the knowledge and skill that came so easily to my granddad. Unfortunately, the handy gene skipped over me, and I became frustrated. But I remained determined to do whatever it took to become a tradesman.

One day, I brought home a sconce from woodshop that looked like a paramecium, and after a heavy sigh, my grandfather told me the truth. He explained that my life would be a lot more satisfying and productive if I got myself a different kind of toolbox. This was almost certainly the best advice I’ve ever received, but at the time, it was crushing. It felt contradictory to everything I knew about persistence, and the importance of “staying the course.” It felt like quitting. But here’s the “dirty truth,” Stephen. “Staying the course” only makes sense if you’re headed in a sensible direction. Because passion and persistence – while most often associated with success – are also essential ingredients of futility.

That’s why I would never advise anyone to “follow their passion” until I understand who they are, what they want, and why they want it. Even then, I’d be cautious. Passion is too important to be without, but too fickle to be guided by. Which is why I’m more inclined to say, “Don’t Follow Your Passion, But Always Bring it With You.”

Carry On
Mike



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